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Why is my 4-week-old daughter crying non-stop despite trying various soothing techniques? We've exhausted all options, including sucking on pacifiers and fingers, breastfeeding, white noise, movement, and ensuring she has a clean diaper and no fever. Both my partner and I are slightly sick with a common cold, which may have affected our baby. We're desperate for any advice or solutions to help ease her distress.

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When all else fails I try the following: Hold your baby high against your body, walk up and down a dark hallway, and sing to your little one. The walking is very soothing to them and the dark is relaxing. Additionally, a good technique is to firmly pat their diaper to the beat of whatever you're singing; don't spank them, but a good pat that helps them focus on the music can do wonders for stopping tears and will sometimes get out a painful burp.

Also understand that you may not be able to stop the crying; colic, which is periods of prolonged and seemingly causeless crying, is fairly common in infants and is thought to be gas. Just try your best to comfort your baby and talk to your pediatrician if the crying lasts for more than a few days or for extended periods.

Finally, I'd recommend this excellent article on the subject of colic. It includes a number of tips and phone numbers to toll-free help lines.

I wish you and your little one the best of luck.
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A friend's baby cried "excessively" when born. All the nurses said it was normal and wrote them off as just being inexperienced parents. My friends persisted until someone finally took them seriously and found the child had a hernia. Once it was repaired, the baby started crying at "normal" levels.

Long and short, have you spoken to a pediatrician about it?
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