How to reduce the frequency of breastfeeding for a newborn?

Question

Our newborn baby has been breastfeeding every hour during the afternoons for the past 8-9 days. We understand that cluster feeding is normal, but it doesn't seem to be stopping. This is causing concern as we have a four-year-old and my wife will need to go back to work soon. Is there any way to change our baby's feeding habits and avoid bottle feeding?

Answer 1

It is the baby's first growth spurt. Major growth spurts occur at 2, 3, and 6 weeks, 3 months, and 6 months. They can last a little more than week (such as in your case). If a two week old baby is demanding the boob, it probably needs it.

However, there are babies who have trouble nursing and will keep on wanting the boob in attempt to get milk out. It IS possible that your baby has has a tongue-tie, which is making it difficult for him to get enough milk. Is your baby gaining enough weight? Does he/she have enough wet diapers?

If it is just the baby needing a lot of breast feeding, and your wife is unable to manage the four year old and the newborn (quite a challenge, really), she can try pumping. It can be a little less strenuous, especially when you will be there to help in the evenings.

There really isn't a way to alter a two week old baby's eating habits - it's not a habit, it's a need.

Answer 2

She's probably into the first growth spurt already and as such is hungry all the time. It is, unfortunately harder on Mom if she's got a toddler around that also needs attention.

Try to keep up the feedings on demand as they are now; chances are they WILL taper off somewhat if it is a growth spurt. Otherwise, she might be nursing for comfort as well; has your wife considered wearing a sling so she can keep the baby with her while she does things around the house, etc? I hate to recommend a pacifier so soon because you don't want the baby getting nipple confusion, but that might keep her occupied for a bit so your wife can do other things around he house.